I truly believe that if you believe in yourself, you can find a way to make something possible. If you believe in your creativity and strengths, you can create a possibility. Sometimes it takes research and sometimes it just requires willpower and dedication. For example, if you decide you want to create a substance that will enable you to holographically project yourself in multiple places while you sit at home and watch a few screens showing what each of the projections sees, go ahead. Figure it out. Chances are good that either you can study holographics and videography and then (eventually) figure out a way to project yourself in multiple places at once....
Read MoreIn my 16 years of living, I have met thousands of people. Some of them, I bonded with. I like connecting with people. Relationships are very important to me. However, if someone is hurting me, no matter how much I care about them, that kind of behavior is unacceptable and won’t be tolerated. Okay, you have an orchid. One orchid. It is your very favorite orchid and you love it above all else. Someone comes up and waters your orchid with gasoline. Wow, rude. Well, maybe they’ll stop. Oh — no, they didn’t. It’s become a monthly thing…then weekly…then daily. What are you gonna do? Are you gonna be calm and invite...
Read MoreOkay, I’m a girl. I often find myself ignoring the stereotypical things it takes to be a lady. By that I mean, I’m not the best mannered, I dress how I want to and that means wearing anything aside from jeans and a sweatshirt as minimally as possible, and I don’t like pink or pastels. See, I love it when guys are kind and generous and thoughtful and selfless and all that, but I’m a generally stubborn and impatient person. I can open the car door myself, why would I wait for you to do it? I can hold the door for you, please don’t be offended. I can walk with you, you don’t have to drop me off. I can open these things myself and carry...
Read MoreWow, I really hate new things. New things absolutely blow up my anxiety. I fear new opportunities and I fear new situations. However, I fear failure and I’m scared of the idea of missing something drastically important in my life just because I was afraid. So I usually end up going with whatever it is and dealing with the crippling anxiety that goes along. Instead of worrying about the opportunity however, I begin worrying about the humans I’ll be interacting with as a direct result of saying yes and acting fearless. You see, I fear humans because (since I am one of them) I know what they’re capable of. I know what they can think, how they can feel,...
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